When laughs, cries, loves, joys, experiences, happiness and passion create a nation..

Antara Perbedaan, Prinsip, dan Rasa June 3, 2011

Filed under: Life,Point of View — paulinnation @ 2:52 pm

Sudah lama Saya tidak menulis, berbagi sedikit rasa dan apa yg ada di sekitar penglihatan Saya. Bicara tentang perbedaan, memang tidak ada ujungnya. Sama halnya seperti kita membahas prinsip, dan rasa-nya ๐Ÿ™‚ . Kalau di infotainment kan biasanya banyak istilah “Perbedaan Prinsip” dan itu bisa saja merubah segala “Rasa” yg ada kepada orang lain. Tapi, disini bukan tentang infotainment ataupun gossip. Mari kita bangun dan melihat, semua itu terasa dekat dengan kehidupan kita (atau saya).

Pernah satu hari Saya posting mengenai “perbedaan” dalam twitter Saya.. “Sebenernya laki2 dan perempuan itu berawal dari sama2 tidak cocok kan? At least one thing. Sisanya ya FAKE. Cuma dibalut kemanisan LOVE.” . Terserah apa komentar kalian tentang ini, tapi ini menurut Saya.
Jadi begini, apa ada diantara kalian yg bertemu dengan pasangan kalian sekarang karena suatu perbedaan pada awalnya? Kemungkinan besar akan menjawab “Tidak”. Ya tentu saja karena persamaan kan? Entah selera musiknya yg sama, selera makanan, selera film, persamaan pola pikir atau bahkan prinsip. intinya persamaan selera atau rasa suka dan pandangan. Lagi2 rasa, dan lagi2 sudut pandang. Ketiga kata itu seperti tidak mau dipisahkan.
Tapi, apakah kalian juga sadar kalau di sisi lain sebenarnya, ada banyak sekali perbedaan diantara kalian. Atau bahkan lebih banyak dari persamaan yg kalian miliki. Lalu hubungan dari suatu persamaan itu berlanjut, bulan demi bulan, tahun demi taun.. Sampai akhirnya “Taarrr!” .. Perdebatan itu muncul, karena dia maunya begini dan yg satu lagi maunya begitu.. Persamaan yg dulunya jadi pelekat seakan meleleh ditelan perbedaan, ego, dan emosi. Ego membuat suatu sudut pandang menjadi lebih keras dibanding batu. Membuat seseorang meragukan rasa yg selama ini dia miliki.
Jadi akankan tetap perbedaan itu bisa disebutkan sebagai sesuatu yg indah?
Apalagi kalau perbedaan itu berada pada prinsip. Seakan, semua jalan yg didepan runtuh tak berbentuk..

Kemana arah tulisan ini? Mencari jawaban dari segala keresahan menyangkut perasaan.. Sejauh ini, yg dapat saya bagi hanyalah.. “penerimaan”..
Seperti kalanya kalian menerima pasangan kalian yg pada awalnya terlihat “sama”.. Sebagaimana kalian mau membuka hati kalian untuk menerima rasa dari pasangan kalian.. Kebesaran hati, keluasan sudut pandang, kedewasaan diri..
Dimana perbedaan bisa menjadi suatu hiburan dalam kedataran, dimana prinsip bisa menjadi penguat suatu hubungan, dan rasa.. menjadi pemanis dalam kepalsuan..

Ini bukan tentang hidup Saya atau hidup siapa2.. Ini tentang apa yg Saya lihat dan Saya tulis… ๐Ÿ™‚

“Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead”

Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead


King of Anything May 10, 2011

Filed under: Life — paulinnation @ 2:55 pm

All my life
I’ve tried
To make everybody happy while I
Just hurt
And hide
Waitin’ for someone to tell me it’s my turn
To decide…..


Heart Skips A Beat May 9, 2011

Filed under: Life — paulinnation @ 11:08 am

I’m trying hard not to resist the joyย 
Don’t listen to me I’m being paranoidย 
I might try hard but it’s too hard to avoid….


My Horoscope March 24, 2011

Filed under: Info,Life — paulinnation @ 12:30 pm

It is very difficult to define the characteristics profile of a Capricorn girl exactly. She can be the sexy babe on the beach or a scientist sitting in the laboratory, doing experiments that can save mankind. Whatever she is on the outside, when you look inside you will find a girl who looks for security, authority, respect and position. It is an entirely different matter how she seeks to achieve these goals. It may be as the president of a country or as the wife of an ambitious man. She seeks recognition and it doesn’t matter how she gets it.

A Capricorn female is like that goat, which has to reach the top of the mountain. It doesn’t matter what position she starts and how slowly she walks, she will be at the top much before those, who were running in front of her. She will do it with such subtlety that you wouldn’t even know when she crossed all the milestones. She has her aims and ambitions, but they don’t come before her family. She can enjoy the role of a wife or a mother as much as that of the CEO of the biggest MNC. However, you will have to provide her with equivalent respect and security.

Almost all the Capricorn women have immaculate etiquettes. They have an inherent sense of social elegance, modesty and conventional look. Though she looks completely calm, composed and balanced, don’t think she doesn’t have mood swings. She can become really depressed if she thinks that someone has misjudged or ill-treated her. In such a case, she may brood for months at a time. This stems from the fact that she does not feel as secure as she seems to be and fears being ridiculed or laughed at.

It is advisable not to tease a Capricorn girl; she may take it too literally. Though she may pretend otherwise, she seeks as much compliments as the other girls, probably even more. Show her that you appreciate her and make her feel secure. It will help her in opening up and showing her deliberately controlled passion. A Capricorn girl’s personality doesn’t include the trait of wishful thinking. She sees only those dreams that can be converted into reality. She enters a boat only when she knows that the waters are safe.

She will emphasize heavily on social etiquettes and you never see her serving the guests in anything but crystal cutlery. There will always be something fresh about her beauty and she will never ever be unattractive, even when she is wearing those hair-curlers. A Capricorn female will appear to be extremely confident, but inside she is quite unsure about her appearance. You will have to reassurance her time and again that she is attractive. She will always be honest and will expect the same from you.

At the same time, you will have to respect her family. Remember when you marry a Capricorn woman; you marry her family and relatives too. If ever you criticize her family members, better ensure that the criticism is constructive or she will never forgive you. Her love for you will never prevent her from taking care of her family. The plus point of this attitude is that she will be equally considerate towards your family too and give them the same respect as her own fellows. She will never mind if you cancel your holiday trip to pay for dad’s operation.

The home of a Capricorn female will always be sparkling clean, that to with effortless ease. She is a realist and daydreaming is not her idea of passing the time. She has the ability to make even the dullest of surroundings looks warm and attractive, with her earthly passion. She will never stop you from dreaming, as long as there is bread in the house and the dreams have atleast some chances of turning into reality. As a mother, she will teach the kids discipline, economy, practicality, etiquettes and respect for elders. Make her feel loved, protected, needed and cared for and in return, she will support you in realizing your dreams and give you a deep, lasting love!

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Today’s Quote February 19, 2011

Filed under: Life,Point of View — paulinnation @ 3:52 pm

Don’t fight against the Universe. Get invited. Then your gangsta will have a lot of new member. – Paulinnation


Uneasy February 16, 2011

Filed under: Life,Point of View — paulinnation @ 3:02 pm


“It’s very uneasy to start something.”

Thoset words are spinnin’ around in my head. Hope it couldn’t be a bad distraction to my point of view.


It’s my problem about dealing with characters and numbers. But, my current Job really require to be the expert of it.

Now, I’m talking about my current Job. My current position.

Yes. A secretary. Most people under estimate about secretaryal job. It only takes your 10 fingers to type a document, your good voice to say “Good Morning.., Can I help you?” or even for answer the phone call. Just need a calendar to arrange some meetings, make sure that “everything is okay”. Yes, the last sentence here.

Everything.. Everything means E-VE-RY-THING. Gosh, cud you imagine.. The word everthing really frighten me off lately.

Beside, I’m an almost perfectionist person. I will observe every detail, word by word, inch by inch, name by name, number by number…

Then I realize, It is more than “JUST”.

Now here I come with the fact that being a secreatary will allow you to know almost everything. Even it is a confidential thing of this world.. *too much*

Secret Key

And of course, keepin’ a secret become a difficult thing to do. Beside, I’m a woman who hard to be sealed :p

But, I’m dealing with another secret. Another thing to be kept.

It is about another people’s life, another people’s carrier, or even future.. It needs a judicious act and mind to control it..


I have to deal with it, through my maturity ๐Ÿ™‚


Goes-23 January 16, 2011

Filed under: Life,Spotted,The Moment — paulinnation @ 10:19 pm


This post is about my birthday. My 23rd birthday. No gift untill today. But I have a lot of precious moments, that I hope it will last forever. Amin.

Me and #EPJ

Me and #EPJ

Second pic,

Me and #EPJ - 2

Me and #EPJ - 2

Third pic,

Me and #EPJ - 3

Me and #EPJ - 3

Last pic,

Me and #EPJ - 4

Me and #EPJ - 4

Well anyway, thank you for all the wishes everyone ๐Ÿ™‚

I can’t mention you one by one ย :p , Its all mean a lot form me, and for my 23rd birthday. Love ya’ll..

Hey #EPJ, I’m still waiting for our shirts ya… hihihihi..

hugs and kisses!